For those suffering from complicated grief, here's how to get help
It is common to experience grief in stages following the loss of someone who held an important role in your life. Typically this leads to a place of acceptance and the ability to move forward. However, for some, moving through these stages on your own can be incredibly difficult. You may feel “stuck” and unable to fully move to acceptance.
It is possible for this grief to develop into something more serious, something that can interfere with daily functioning and can be debilitating if not resolved. These symptoms may be a sign that a person is experiencing Complicated Grief Disorder (CGD), also sometimes known as complicated bereavement disorder.
Fortunately, there are many forms of treatment available for moving on from grief. Seeking help from a therapist is a great way to have someone with knowledge and experience help guide you to making peace with loss.
Is my therapist the right fit for me?
There are two important things to consider when seeking help for complicated grief disorder. One is finding a therapist that is a good fit for you and that you feel comfortable and emotionally safe with. The other is finding a grief treatment that works for you and helps you meet your goal.
When first seeking a therapist, it can be helpful if that therapist has past experience with what you are going through. Seeking a therapist who has experience with grief therapy or complicated grief disorder can ensure that they are familiar with treatments that can be helpful for you.
Another aspect to consider is your personal connection with the therapist.
Do you feel you can be authentic and honest in your conversations with them?
Do you feel comfortable around them?
Do you feel heard and validated in your sessions?
Are they adaptable and open with their approach?