Maintaining a Healthy Relationship with Parents Moving Back In
Any new roommate situation will come with sometimes major adjustments to your current lifestyle. Having an elderly parent become that new roommate, can make it an even bigger adjustment. Yes, you love your parents, but after leaving the nest and living independently as an adult there may be some concerns about having them move in with you. It changes the dynamic of your relationship from you being the child into being a parent-like figure, especially if you have to take care of them. Navigating this can be tricky, but here are some tips on how to set boundaries and maintain a healthy relationship with your elderly parent.
Be Prepared
Depending on the level of care that your parent may require, you may have to make some adjustments to your lifestyle; be prepared for this. It’s important to assess what they require for care before they move in. A few questions can be asked to get a general idea of what they may require.
Are they able to move around easily?
Can they drive themselves?
Can they be left alone for long periods of time?
Can they care for their personal hygiene and other similar needs?