How to journal about grief
As a hobby or activity, journaling has the potential to produce numerous benefits, such as improving creativity, organizational skills, and even sometimes memory. But the most important benefit journaling can promise is emotional processing. Writing down your feelings in a safe, private space is freeing and usually cathartic. Especially when dealing with grief, confronting your complicated and overpowering emotions can bring clarity and some relief. If you don’t know what journaling for grief looks like or where to begin, here are some helpful prompts to get you started and advice to keep in mind.
Journal prompts
If you don’t know how to begin grief journaling, that’s okay. Unpacking all your emotions is not an easy task, and it’s hard to know where to start. The following are journal prompts meant to help you explore some of your feelings. Some of these prompts are ways you can feel more connected to your loved one who passed by remembering them, while others are used to reveal ways you can learn to appreciate what you do have and ways you can cope with grief beyond journaling.
Begin a sentence with the below prompts regarding your loved one, and see where your thoughts take you:
Today, I remembered…
If I could say something to you, I would say…
The hardest time of day is…
One thing I miss the most about you is...
Besides grief, I am feeling…
One quote that expresses how I am feeling right now is...
Additionally, you can also follow some of the below prompts, which ask you to make lists or approach this process in a different way:
Make a list of objects or events that remind you of your loved one. Do these upset you when you see or experience them? Should you take steps to minimize exposure to them?
Write a list of activities you could do to make yourself feel better.
Who is your support system? People you can rely on that could help or have helped you during this difficult time.
Make a list of a few different ways you have or can honor your loved one.
Create a mantra or affirmation to comfort yourself for times when you are overcome with grief.